ho zee mui♥

best friends are those who,

when you show up at their door with a dead body,

say nothing, grab a shovel and follow you♥

speaking to carmen has made me realise that

i've come to trust my boyfriend a whole lot more :)

not that i didn't trust him before, but i did have my doubts..

and now, i think i have finally reached the point of

100% trust and 100000000% loveeeee of coursee! ^^ ♥

carmen worries about kit a lot

because she's very much in love with him

and they're still in they're lovey-dovey phase

so they're still all smoochy-smoochy ;)

but i think she needs to learn to trust him

when it comes to things like making decisions..

when he does something that she doesn't like,

instead of being upset about it, i think she needs to 

take on his perspective and understand that

he's thought things through and he knows what he's doing.

like, trust him when he say's that he's alright

and that he'll come back home to you safely♥

i used to reeally worry about tim all the time♥

and i remember i'd get soo annoyed when he went out

or when he stayed out till ridiculous times ==

and even when he was making his own decisions

and sometimes, they would clash with what i wanted him to do..

but he's a fully grown man who's capable of making his own choices

and as his other half, it wouldn't be right for me

to stop him from doing what he would like to do♥

i bet you're surprised whilst reading this (even slightly!)

because as our relationship deepened and 

as we understood each other more and more,

i've matured and i've learned to look into your perspective

and others whilst balancing my own :)

it's kind of like a whole new er.. light, shall we say? hahaa ;p

because it really does open up your eyes (and mind)

when you can understand what's going through his/her's mind

and then you can avoid unnecessary disagreements etc♥

when me and carmen have our rants and stuff ;p

i realise i don't actually have that many things to rant about now lols

like, i used to have PAGES AND PAGES of things to say!

but now i can comfort her and reassure her

because i've been through those stages before (:

it makes me really happy knowing i can help someonee~

especially if she's my ho zee mui♥

♥